Thursday, April 20, 2023

MY INLAWS

 William Emmett and Martha Quillin Rodgers


I met the Rodgers family when I came to town to work on the Arsenal in 1956. William Emmett Rodgers, known to most every one as “
W.E.” and Martha Quillin Rodgers raised five daughters on East Clinton Avenue in Huntsville. They became part of my family when one of their daughters became my wife. The town was growing fast because of the work on missiles and rockets but it seemed that almost all of the old-time Huntsville residents knew Mr. Rodgers. In later years, we often met folks who remembered him as the Insurance Man of their parents or grandparents.


W.E. was selling Life Insurance when the population of Huntsville was less than 30,000. The premiums on many of those policies were just a few cents and were collected on a weekly or monthly basis. At that time, Huntsville was so small that he could make many of his calls by walking about the town.  When the weather was hot, he would return home at noon where Martha would have a fresh starched white shirt waiting for him. 

W.E. was born in 1902 in Huntsville, Alabama to Sidney Augustus Rodgers and Dama Lou Terry Rodgers. In his younger days, he spent several years working at the T. T. Terry Department Store before starting his career as a salesman for the National Life and Accident Insurance Company. In 1967, at age 65, he retired with a pension from National Life and began drawing his Social Security, However, he was not one to remain idle. He had a plethora of elderly relatives, friends, and former clients that he visited on a regular basis. He also found some paying jobs to keep him busy in retirement.


My father was a distributor of fishing tackle, specializing in Cane Fishing Poles.  When he passed away in November of 1967, he left my mother with a warehouse containing about 20 thousand fishing poles. I was trying to help her to sell the business or at least convert the inventory to cash. We found a buyer for the tackle inventory and Dad’s delivery truck but no potential buyer was interested in the poles. In a conversation with my father-in-law, I mentioned our difficulty in finding a buyer for the poles. He immediately declared that if I could get the poles from Tuscaloosa to Huntsville, he could SELL them.


Over the next 2 years, I used my boat trailer to haul bundles of poles to Huntsville.
W.E. would put the bundles on a car-top rack and head out to sell them to bait shops and filling stations across the Tennessee Valley. Thus, we emptied the warehouse, provided cash for my Mother and income for the Rodgers. He really enjoyed his time as a FISHING POLE SALESMAN. He wanted me to contact the supplier and order a regular supply of poles. I wish I could have done so, but I declined because my job with NASA was becoming more demanding.


Later he took a menial job at GOODWILL INDUSTRIES, helping with stocking the clothes racks and doing cleanup work. He must have been doing a good job there for he was offered a job at The HUNTSVILLE NEWS. The job at the NEWS was basically janitorial, although he was also responsible for cleaning up some of the equipment used in laying out the pages for printing. That job was demanding enough that he recruited our 15 year old son to assist him.


Martha was born at Nettleton, MS in 1913 to Hiram T. Quillin, Sr. and Maude Catherine Sisk Quillin. After high school, Martha worked in the office of Blake Brothers Plumbing. After she married W.E. in 1935, she helped him keep his Account Books. By 1944 they had 5 young girls in the house. You can imagine how busy she was raising 5 girls in a two bedroom, one bath house.


One of her passions was sewing and quilting. She made many dresses and blouses for her daughters. As the grandchildren arrived, she made each a quilt containing pieces from her collection of scraps left over from her previous creations. It was always a treat to watch the daughters as they found a piece from a favorite dress or blouse in one of her quilts.

The family were regular attendees at First Methodist Church and Martha volunteered in supporting the children and youth ministries. All the girls received musical instruction and participated in the school bands so she took an active part in the band parents organizations. 


One after the other, the girls grew up, went off to college, found husbands, and began families of their own. The Rodgers remained at their Clinton Avenue home and looked forward to occasional visits with their children and grandchildren. 


As W.E. moved into his eighties and Martha entered her seventies, it became apparent that W.E. should not be driving. In a family conference with Martha and the daughters, it was decided that their girls, the son-in-laws, and the driving age grandchildren would make sure they got anywhere they needed or wanted to go. Like the polite gentleman he was, W.E. acquiesced with little complaint. He did, however, mention once or twice that he wished he still had a car so he did not have to bother others to get about.


On December 9, 1985, Martha, age 72, passed away after a heart attack and a stroke. W.E. went to live with a daughter. Fourteen months later, on February 10, 1987, William Emmett Rodgers, age 84, passed away after a stroke.


Thursday, April 6, 2023

My Parents Marriage


 
The MARRIAGE of DEWEY and WILLIE MAE 

In the Spring of 1933, Dewey Weaver, still single at 29 years old, was a busy man.  He was operating his own successful coal delivery business and he was getting ready for the biggest event of his life.  He had two major task to complete.  First, he needed to find and furnish the right house.  Second, he needed to secure the blessing of Charles Wesley and Georgia Ann Avery Hallman to marry their daughter, Willie Mae.

He found a three room house with a small front porch and a somewhat larger back porch.  In the back yard was a water well, a small stable/chicken house and a privy. It was located just west of the town of Peterson where the road to the Robinson’s farm met the Birmingham Highway.  Today that intersection is called Alabama Highway 216 and Robinson Road.  


He soon had the place minimally furnished.  He put a bed, dresser, and wardrobe in the middle room, and a wood cook stove, table and chairs, some shelves, and a wash stand in the back room. He also acquired some miscellaneous items so he could sleep there and also prepare something to eat.  


Dewey had known Charles Wesley Hallman for many years; first through his father’s business of selling coal and then through running his own coal business.  As was customary in those days, he addressed the Hallmans as Uncle Charlie and Aunt Georgia.  Over the last several months he had spent many hours at their home calling on Willie Mae.  More often than not, these visits usually included long conversations with the parents.  He and Uncle Charlie would discuss the current  status of the coal business, world and community events, and the Bible.  Aunt Georgia usually wanted to know how his business was going and what was going on with his folks.  After a bit, the parents would retire to the kitchen and give the young folks some semi-privacy.  


Eventually, he asked if he could take Willie Mae to a square Dance at the school.  Aunt Georgia readily said. “Yes”, provided that they would be accompanied by her older sister, Ressie, and Ressie’s beau, Andrew.  That worked well for a while, but both couples were tiring of always having to be together.  


Dewey finally got the nerve to ask to take Willie Mae places without the escorts.  Aunt Georgia, asked Dewey to follow her to the kitchen, shut the door, sat him at the table and sat down across from him.  She then gave him a speech which included things like the following:  

Dewey, I have known you and your family for many years.  

In the last few months, I have gotten to known you much better.  

I like you, Charlie likes you.  However, you are a man 

almost twice the age of our young daughter.  

You know so much more about life and the world 

than she has ever imagined.  

I think you are an honorable man and 

I am placing her in your hands.  

When you walk through that door, 

I am trusting you and God with the rest of her life.


After that they were free to go out together without the escorts.  


They were soon making plans for their eventually marriage.  As her 17th birthday drew near they approached her parents for their formal blessing on their plans.  True to her previous words, Aunt Georgia made no objection and she and Uncle Charlie gave their blessing.


Sometime after her 17th birthday, they both went to the Courthouse and got the marriage license.  After that they went shopping.  They got three bags of groceries, some pots, pans and table ware.  They also got a mop, a broom, a dustpan, a washtub, and a rub board.  Dewey paid with a $20 bill and got change back.  


After dropping off their purchases at the house, they headed to Abernant to get Mr. Barkley, the Justice of the Peace, to perform the ceremony.  When they arrived in front of his house, he was coming out his front gate.  They told him what they wanted.  He said he was leaving to perform another wedding down the road, but if they had the license, he could perform their ceremony before he left.  They could just sit where they were.  


He looked over the license, saw a young fellow coming down the road and called him over to act as a witness.  The young fellow climbed up on the running board next to Willie Mae and stuck his head through the open window.  Mr. Barkley put one foot on the running board next to Dewey, laid the license, his Bible and a copy of the  ceremony across his knee, performed the ceremony and pronounced them man and wife.


Then they headed home.

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